Anal Pleasure
Anal touch can be a source of great pleasure and profound relaxation. This area can also be a place of apprehension or shame. We believe that becoming familiar with this area and exploring anal touch and pleasure can bring us closer to our core self. The best place to begin your exploration of anal pleasure is through self-touch.
Just like many other aspects of our lives, we can be so focused on a goal that we forget the pleasures of the journey. Others have experienced trauma around aggressive anal touch. For these reasons, we often associate anal touch as meaning penetration. However, we encourage slowness in exploring anal touch, starting out with external massage, and only including penetration if/when that feels right to your body. Many men are surprised how much pleasure can be experience from an external anal massage – without any penetration.
The prostate is also a place of great pleasure. Many of the nerves that control the sexual response such as pleasure, erection, orgasm and ejaculation converge around the prostate. Also the interior root of the penis is in this same area. Self anal massage with your fingers or specially designed toys is a great way to become familiar with and explore the pleasure possible from your prostate.
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Follow along in this video as we continue the exploration of anal pleasure with gentle self massage with fingers and toys. (640 x 480 19:09)![]() |





