Solo Sexuality
There are so many ways to experience solo pleasure. It’s also easy to develop habits. Of course, habits can be both helpful and restrictive. Pleasurable habits can certainly feel great, but may also inhibit our exploration. We invite you to take a look at the way you make love to yourself and explore additional options.
Sometimes it can be a challenge to let go of control. We often want to have a particular type of experience and try to shape our pleasure to meet our expectations. Letting go of control, especially around orgasm, allows our body to do what is naturally needed. Sometimes, that may be a nice gentle orgasm. Other times, that may be an intense orgasm with much body movement. When we let go and just experience it, our orgasm becomes a much more powerful embodied release.
Erotic trance holds many pleasures for men willing to break through habits and beliefs. Through erotic trance we can learn to become multi-orgasmic, learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation and break the patterns developed over a lifetime to attain newfound heights of ecstasy.
One key to building pleasure is to vary the pace and the strokes. Most of us are used to doing the ‘piston’ stroke – the usual up down stroke with a fist. As you gain more practice you may find that varying your strokes helps you enjoy the pleasure without concerning yourself with cumming. Here are some new strokes to explore.
Sound is an overlooked tool to expand your pleasure. Sometimes we’ve been conditioned to keep quiet – we don’t want to get caught. Sound has a way of opening up the body and releasing primal instincts. Experiment with sound and see what gets released in your pleasure!
Movement is another way to highten our pleasure. Often we masturbate sitting still, find out how moving around can intensify the sensation.
Ed spent many years running from his own inner beast. In this article, originally published in White Crane Journal, Ed shares his journey and insights. Much of his learning was focused on becoming comfortable with his sexuality. Free Download!
